Im 18 and i have a older boyfriend and an unhappy mother? need Advice!!!?

I turned 18 yesterday and tonight i intend to spend tonight and possibly tomorrow. my mother is psychotic, and is there anything she can do about it now? should i even be worrying? how do i tell her that i am? and not telling her is not an option, i just need a bit o advice please!!!Im 18 and i have a older boyfriend and an unhappy mother? need Advice!!!?
Sounds like you are a very mature 18 year old, that's in your favor. Unfortunately, we cant change our past but sometimes our past experiences builds our character for good or bad. I think you are very lucky to have someone you trust and understands the real you. you'll be o.k. because you have something to offer. Good Luck !Im 18 and i have a older boyfriend and an unhappy mother? need Advice!!!?
I'm 23 and have had my parents dislike my boyfriend before, and THEY WERE RIGHT. Remember that you will always have your mom be your mom, but he may not always be your boyfriend. Just because you've had a birthday doesn't mean you're ready for sex. I'm 23 and I know I'm not ready for sex. Your mother is not psychotic, she's just nervous for you and your safety about this guy, because for some reason she doesn't trust him, and her being your mom, you should trust that. She gave you life, and raised you, and gave you everything you could ever want. The least you can do is respect her and trust her gut about this guy, and not spend the night with him. She can and may decide not to support you anymore--no more house, car, food, etc.--you do it all on your own. Is this guy worth risking life as you know it?
Just make sure you're dating this guy for the right reasons. Make sure you really like him and want to be intimate with him, not just to drive your mom crazy. If this is really what you want there is nothing your mom can do. Did you talk to your mom? Mom's have more experience with men than younger people, and are good at spotting the ';bad'; ones. Find out what are her reasons for not liking him. If it is just his age, then how much older is he? When it comes down to it, only you can make the decision, after all you are the one dating him not your mother. (But from personal experience, moms usually know best. I learned that the hard way.) Good luck with your decision, and remember if you're not sure the best thing you can do is wait until you are.
Don't get hurt.
If you were more mature, you'd understand she is only looking out for your welfare. How much older is this guy? Honestly, she can't have you or him thrown in jail, but I hope you have someplace else you live, as she is also no longer required to provide fro you any longer, and I would guess the more disrespectful you become of her feelings, the more attractive that option will become to her.
Take care of your self. It is important. You are very young, must concentrate on studiess now
Is it because that you have an older boyfriend that your mother is unhappy? or is it because you feel that your mother is psychotic that you are now having a boyfriend older than you? You need to prioritize first. Boyfriends could come and go. But your mother can not be replaced. If you can please them both, well and good! Be careful, don't do something that you'll soon regret. Don't just listen what you feel. Think wisely before you act. Take time to harmonize the reasoning of your brain and what your heart dictates.
Well, now that you are 18, pack up and move. If you're old enough not to follow house rules, you are old enough to support yourself. Responsibility comes in many forms and you need to understand that.





Your mother isn't psychotic. She's just not as dumb as you are and she's perfectly aware that an older boyfriend is more likely a user than your guy for life. There are many other ways to celebrate your birthday that do not involve sex. Celebrate with your Mom. You only become 18 once and your Mom would likely like to celebrate that major event with you. In 5 years, your boyfriend will be history, while your Mom will still be there.





Note: I thought I should add that all 18 year olds are dumb not because they are stupid, but because they have not experienced as much life as a 35 year old. Lots of things and pitfalls to learn about at your age.
it is simple, listen to your mother
use condoms
As of whenever you turned 18 there is nothing that your mother can do about you being any where!!!! The only thing that she can do is get mad at you!!! Dont worry about it just forget about it
Hie bikka. Actuallly when you are 18 it might be your time to make decision in your life but you have to remember that she would be the first person that anything happens to you and something might go wrong. maybe you could have a light sex work out by using a condom or you could you do something slow such as playing with the body only.she have the rights to stop you or stop him to see you because she has been taking care you from small and till now maybe this could help you out..... all the best