Mother needs advice PLEASE HELP!!!?

This is my daughter's yahoo answer account. I'm new to this.





My daughter moved into college the end of August. She knew her roommmate and was REALL LOOKING FOWARD to staying with her!





After move in day from Sunday-Wednesday The roommate told my daughter she was moving out then she would say nevermind I'm moving back in this went on for days! The one night the roommmate left my daughter there and there was a small fire on the first floor. My daughter was all by herself and scared. Wednesday night she had my daughter helping her move out for about 2 hours!!





So after the roommmate finally moved out my daughter was somewhat ';pushed'; into living this this other girl of African American decent. The girl was having a hard time in her old room.





My daughter said she'd like time to think about it but the African American Girl's mother was pushing my daughter to decide. My daughter unsure of what to say agreed. She also had to help that girl move in as well!!Mother needs advice PLEASE HELP!!!?
It sounds like your daughter is very unhappy... If she is miserable there and hates it then let her come home if she can't get a new roommate.. She will be miserable and not do her schooling anyways... Can't she just get a new roommate?Mother needs advice PLEASE HELP!!!?
She has to lean that mom can't bail her out forever. She needs to learn to deal with people herself, and just get your verbal advice now.








Good luck.
I'd say yes, to let her move back in and attend community. It doesn't matter where the credits come from, just the degree. By attending community first, she can get most of her credits out of the way, and grow up and more mature. So if and when she transfers back into the private institutions, she won't be scarred living on her own if she needs to.


The first few years are always the hardest.
If it's not working out there then just have here go to a local community college. It will be less expensive and she can have the plus of living at home and saving more money in the long run. I don't really like the idea of sending kids to college far away and them having to stay with people they don't know. Bad situations could happen so it's best to completely avoid it when possible. With no parental supervision anything goes with the uninhibited atmosphere of college life. Do you really want to expose your child to that kind of environment?? (Just something to think about)





Your daughter could take her Univ. classes on-line instead or as you suggested have her go to the local community college. You can get your degree in whatever and most if not all community colleges and Univ. allow students to transfer their credits over so they can get their degree. This way they can spend less time in a University.