When i first have my baby i am going to be living in my parents house. I have sisters my age who are around all the time and other family members and parents... pretty much there are constantly people here and they will want to be around the baby constantly and help out.
Which i welcome but i am concerned about how the baby will know that i am her mother. There will be people holding her and being around her just as much as i am? How will she have special connection to me or know Im her mother?
I suggested to my family that i will be the only one who bottle feeds her ( can't breast feed) and they said it was silly and the baby will know im her mother , but im not so sure.
What does everyone think? And what are some ways you can make that connection when there are so many other people around all the time?How will she know im her mother? Advice please?
I'm sure it does sound weird to you since this will be your first baby, but trust me- she'll know that you're her mother. She had 9 months of getting used to everything about you, especially your voice.
Anything you do with her will be a connection, even if it's simply holding her. Just try and relax- she will know who you are and there will be times when all it takes for her to stop crying is to be in your arms. :-)How will she know im her mother? Advice please?
A baby knows his/her mother. She's heard you voice the clearest for the last few months and your voice will be a comfort to her. You feeding her, holding her and spending time with her will help you to bond. But it isn't going to hurt you or her if someone else is doing those things too. There are going to be times when you are going to need a break and it will be nice to have some extra hands to help.
she knows your voice and it wont be long until she learns your smell. And, although u may have help during the days, it is most likely that u will take on all the night-crawling duties, and those r the moments when u will bond the most with her.
I don't think you should be so insecure..
ofcourse baby wl know you are his /her mother.. bonding comes within I think.. make sure that you wl spend quality time with baby and let the baby sleep with you.. giving bath,feeding, cuddling these things make the bond more strong..
she will know the sound of her voice, so talk to her now and when you have her. she will Always know who and where(if your anywhere she can hear you) you are.
Your baby will know who her mother is! She will respond by your voice. Its natural for her to know who you are. 2-3 days after birth a baby could learn their language and distinguish other voices from their mother. Dont worry!
i am sorry i can not answer that i just lost one of my twin girls and i have 1 other who is 2 and her daddy just died at war i am sorry
Your baby will know you are her mom. The baby will know your voice, shes been hearing you talk all this time.
your body will have a distinct smell to her. if your the one who does most of the feedings then she will know who you are, and she will know your face.
As long as you're around, your baby will always know who you are. She already knows your voice, so talk to her a lot.
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