I need advice for a 12 year old girl on how to tell her mother she might be preganant.?

I know a 12 year old girl who might be preganant. She doesnt know yet if she is preganant but she needs advice on how to tell her mother.I need advice for a 12 year old girl on how to tell her mother she might be preganant.?
@12, you may want other there, cuz I'd be going nuts is I found out my 12 year old got pg.I need advice for a 12 year old girl on how to tell her mother she might be preganant.?
I think she just needs to sit down with her mother when there are no distractions, and tell her.





If she just can't get the words out, maybe she could write it in a letter and have her read it while she is sitting there.





OR she could have an older person who she has confided in be there with her to tell her mother.





Then they have a lot of talking to do.
oh WOW that girl is in a very tough situation!! a 12 yr old had sex and got pregnant,,arnt 12 yr olds in 6th grade!!!!??? well she better tell her mom before she finds out from someone else cause that would be worse!! tell her GL :)
The little girl needs to get adoption counselling. More than likely she cannot economically support and nurture her baby AND get an education AND do both well. Tell the little girl to talk to her mother about getting adoption assistance counselling. There are thousands of couples ready to scoop up the baby. Tell the little girl to tell her mother who she thinks the father is. This person should be charged with statutory rape whether he is a minor or not.
OMG!!! Well there's only one way to tell the mom and that is to just tell her. I would probably make sure first though before giving mom a heart attack and if she's not and let's all pray that she is NOT then she had better get on birth control if she is going to continue to be sexually active....GOD...she is just a baby!!!
just flat out tell her. i dont think when it comes to things like this, that there's really an easy way to do it. the sooner she tells her the better. if she is pregnant, she needs to start going to the doctor, get pre-natal vitamins, all that stuff. or if she's going to get an abortion, she needs to look into that (with her mother!) or if she's going to give it up for adoption. if she is pregnant, hopefully the mother wont take it too hard, and will help her daughter through this. 12 is too young to be pregnant!! i hope she isnt, this should be a scary lesson for her to stop being sexually active! go be a kid!
Who did she ask for advice when she had sex?
sorry your getting a lot of negative answers, these people don't know the whole situation and neither do i,


yeah she's 12 but she may have been forced into sex, raped or just made a one time bad decision.


anyway your friend she just come right out and tell her mother the situation then go get tested and then decide weather or not to keep the baby if she is pregnant.


Also if the girl is planing on continuing to be sexually active she should go on birth control. If the girl has been forced into sex then she should also go to the police.
';Mom; I pulled a Britney, Im a Whore';





But To Be Serious!





The Girl Needs a Therapist!
Awful situation but one thats got to be faced without delay. She's got more to worry about than if her mum's angry with her for a few hours. At the end of the day her mum will be there for her and help her through this situation. If she can't say it face to face then she could write a note either way it's not going to be easy. If I was her I'd make sure 100% before telling her parents
you should go with her when she tells her mom for support, if not you then someone who can be there to medorate the situation. her mom might be mad for a while, but she'll get over it. have her go with you to a teen clinic for options and a test. this could bring mom and child closer together.
well i dont know but if she keeps the baby i hope shes a better mother then hers has been, she should never have had the opportunity to have been having sex to begin with.





i cant even imagine a 12 year old being pregnant, not only for obvious reasons,but it can be hazardous for her health (and i dont mean just when mom finds out). i mean her body isnt mature enough for birthing a baby.





i dont know how to begin telling mom, but it needs done because she will need to see a dr ASAP and decide what option they have and what they want to do.
i think its high time that people started getting sex education in primary school as well as secondary school. . .it is amazing how many questions we get on here asking people how they tell parents they are preggers or wondering if they are preggers..


i think she should tell her parents. . .straight away, but if she is scared to do that then she should talk to a trusted adult and find out if she really is pregnant first...but she really should tell her parents!!
12 years old - that's crazy!!


watch the movie juno...





there is really no easy way out of this: the best way is to flat out say it, and the sooner the better because she needs to start doing the necessary pregnant things (pills, appointments, vitamins, abortion? etc.)


this is one way to learn this lesson, but i'm very sorry for your friend - i really hope that everything works out!!!
If she is scared to say it face to face then she should leave a letter explaining things to her mum, this would probably be better cos things can be thought about when writing a letter instead of just blurting something out n regreting it! If not, maybe a school councilor/teacher/aunty/freind could tell her mum on her behalf. If not tell her to sit her mum down and just tell her! Tell ur friend if she is lucky enough not to be pregnant this time to stop havin sex so young or to use some kind of protection! Good luck to ur friend!
Have her tell her mother ';you should have been a better parent, now I'm gonna be a mommy';
are u talking about u? well sorry if your not but any way this girl can just come write out and say it when her and her mother are in privet or she could write her a note and hand it to her and tell her to write back or she could have a long drawn out conversation about how sorry she is and how much she regrets it HOPE EVERY THING WORKS OUT FOR YOUR FRIEND!!