I need advice. My 11 year old nephew is violent towards his mother. He sent her to the hospital last night.?

He has a history of violence towards his mother. She is afraid that he will kill her. She is afraid to ask CPS for help with her son. She thinks they will take him from her. What can we do to help him stop this violence.I need advice. My 11 year old nephew is violent towards his mother. He sent her to the hospital last night.?
boot camp....I need advice. My 11 year old nephew is violent towards his mother. He sent her to the hospital last night.?
My 11 year old nephew sent my sister to the hospital, even though my sister and I aren't the closest sister you can find, you could bet that my daughters who are substantially older than my nephew and I would have whipped his azz into next year and then called Child Services to come pick his whipped azz up. 11, oh hell no. My heart to your sister because I am sure she has done the best she can, but, she doesn't deserve this. Has your nephew been evaluated psychologically. Needless to say, if I were your sister (and I know I am not), he would not be welcomed back in my home because I would be afraid that we would kill each other. I know violence isn't the way to go, but hell, I would try my best to hurt him in self-defense. I pray that all works out for your sister, because again, no Mother deserves such treatment. God Bless.
You may consult your psychiatrist immediately in this regard for necessary treatment.
Your sister needs to get CPS involved, they have resources that can help her. They rarely take away children from fit parents, no matter what the child is doing. If doing this on your own was possible, it would already be working. Obviously the situation is getting worse, so you need professional guidance.
Sounds like he needs a good a--- whopping. Since when does a parent let an 11 year old control their life. She needs to stand her ground and the next time he slaps her she needs to return the favor. If not, then I would be afraid he would kill me. See a psychiatrist that specializes in child psychology and get him some help. He may need medication.
OK, prior to another answer, Guantanamo Bay is NOT THE THING TO DO.


Its called boot camp.


That should do it.


ITS NOT HORMONES.


He's got something wrong wit his head.


Boot camp, now.
Unless and until she finds the courage to call CPS and turn her son in to the authorities ( of course, she can always call the police as well, and press charges against him, if she wants to) then this situation is just going to continue until she either gets so badly hurt that she can't do anything, or she dies. Since your sister isn't able to help herself, you need to step in and help her. Your nephew sounds like a very troubled kid with a lot of anger and impulse control issues he needs to work through, and it might be better for all concerned if he were not at home. True, he could spend time in detention, yes, but I think that ultimately efforts would be made to find a permanent placement for him. Your sister needs help and therapy too. I wouldn't try to stop your nephew- just call the police on him the next time he harms or tries to harm his mother. Good luck.
Buy him a 4-wheeler, take him out for practice in the country, and taunt him for driving like a sissy. Or get him involved in the illegal drug trade--he'll be dead in no time.
First of all the mother needs counseling and parenting classes. Secondly, the boy needs counseling.
Obviously the child needs professional help and fast. I would definitely seek the help of a medical professional. Try calling the social worker in his school system or his medical doctor. They can probably set you in the right direction. I wouldn't wait on it though..........
not to sound violent or anything,but if i was her,and my 11 year old did that to me,he would be smacked so hard and grounded for so long,that when it was done,he would be the most loving person ever.she needs to scream at him and demand respect,she's the mother,he cannot control her.she should not fear her own son,and i would tell the cops if i was sent to the hospital by my son,i wouldn't press charges but i would let him go to juvie or a real jail and see what it's like.see where he might be one day.but she and the father need to straighten this kid out before he starts abusing his girlfriends.then he'll abuse his wife and children,with abusers,it's a never ending cycle,unless someone steps in.the dad really needs to step in here in this situation.
just send him to like a rehab kind of place send him away but she shouldnt say im scared hes going to kill me then they will take him away. she should just send him somewhere for disipline
Guantanamo!
Umm she needs to seek some help asap. Or beat the sit out of him. Not to send him to the hospital but to show him not to hit mommy because mommy will beat that ***. Or just go get some help from a psychiatrist get him some professional help. Hospital though? what is he doing to her. whether it be cps or not she needs to get him help before it gets worse. what if he kills someone. or like she said herself her.


Get Help
Jeffrey Dahmer's mother probably felt the same way. Send that boy to a ';Tough Love'; camp in the wilderness or to Boys Town before it's too late.
i understand, or can try to conceive the fear you have of separation between the mother and the child. Not only may she be afraid of losing him, but somewhere also might be feeling guilty for having not prevented such behaviour in educating him. Of course, she is not to blame herself, but this must be dealt with, and she should try and consult a children behaviour therapist. Talking about what she could do to anticipate his actions might help her cope on a daily bais and although i doubt he would cooperate, have him see a therapist, perhaps he has some pesonal issues which are making him react like this: is this a new development in his behaviour? If so, the latter argument should be questioned seriously: he may be experiencing ressure one way or another causing this attitude. In any case, his mother should be seriously helped. I do not hear mentioning of his father: she cannot stand alone in this, not only physically, but mentally and needs some support as she will doubtlessly feel guilt whenever she carries an action which SHE thinks is jeopardizing her son's freedom. In particular if he points it out to her (even the most basic ';you're trying to get rid of me'; or ';i'm not insane or ill, i don't need a shrink'; will affect her badly) GOOD LUCK x x x
He needs a punishment.


Send him to boot camp for a while and then he might appreciate his home AND his mother.


Maybe even a send him to hospital. There is definitely something wrong with him.
He needs to be disciplined. Send him to brat camp or something.
get him out of that house!!! call the police and ask them to put him into juvenile detention....that should straighten his butt up quick....is the father not in the picture? if not then there could be a chance that he is acting out cause of a seperation from them..... he might also need some counseling.
1st of all, the people in here talking about ';whooping'; him or beating his A** isn't going to do anything accept show him that violence can be returned. If it were me, I'd talk to first a pediatrician. 11 yrs old is very young still to be showing so much violence, but not old enough for jail or anything else that most of the people in here are commenting with. Grow up people this is a serious thing. Depending on what the dr. says, go from there. Counceling, medicine, anything other than just beating him back. I wouldn't go to CPS but maybe look in the phone book or online and see if there are other services in your area that would help. There could be a real medical problem there, and you can punish your kids for something like that. Good luck!
Have him thrown in jail....


Military Boot Camp....


or a good butt whippin'
This is wise words from my grandfather TAKE THAT LITTLE S.O.B. AND BEND HIM OVER YOUR KNEE AND WAIL THE H*E*L*L* OUT OF HIS LITTLE A*S*S*, and stand him in the corner till he stops wallerin' if he does not obey standing in the corner then wail him again he will learn soon enough. That is how I was taught.
my moms friends son tried to set her bed on fire while she was taking a nap....





so i kinda know how it is.





they sent her son to lakeland hospital in Springfield, MO.





it helped him out ALOT!
You need to start thinking behind the bad exterior the child gives off for instance..


Has he had a bad upbringing?


Bullied or bullying other children in school can have a massive affect on ones mood!


Has he been under any stress lately


Does he have a Anger Management such as ADHD- pretty common in children these days.


My best advice i can give is to see a doctor, dont go to a PYSCARATRIST!


GOING TO A SYCATRIST MEANS:


A record of 'mental illness'


never be able to work with chemicals, in the police etc.


and if he/she is convicted of a crime and appears in court theres a big chance they'll bring the past up...





So try avoiding this as a LAST soloution.


I think you should try a doctor first he'll refer him over to someone who deals with this kind of behavior.


Keep him off Sugars,fats and E numbers.


Get him to join a club after school he will enjoy to socialze and gain new friends etc.





As for the violence Kids dont just put there mums in hospital for no reason..


Hes obviously seen this act on television or could be getting in with a violent group of friends





Hope you sort stuff out X